Wandalynn's views

When a person is shackled by guilt, you are at a stand still. You need to be able say no and not feel guilty about it. Your own needs and wants are more important than anything else. If you can't say no you are what we call a door mat. There are many of us out there who are super nice people and are not used to saying no, in which case by saying no often brought us manipulation and or making people pissed off because they are used to us saying JUMP... How high?? My feelings of guilt stem from being controlled by others and for acceptance, well for my own health I had to break free of this cycle. MIND you I am still a loving, caring and empathic person but I had to start to learn that it's OK to say no. I would never get time for myself, and peace or respect if I always said yes, the worlds problems are not my own to bare. I have been through a lot never really got the chance to be myself because I was always looking out for someone Else's best interests.. be it a fri...

Everything happens for a reason and somethings can be devastating. This encourages change and enlightenment. For this reason alone change is good, needed and should be embraced. Many of us live with loss, and sometimes it's a lot of loss. Many seek peace,serenity and love. While others are unsure what to search for. We are all human no matter who says things about us and deserve the respect which goes along with being one in the same a HUMAN BEING!!! Some of us are very sensitive while others are not, some make poor choices but who is to judge? You, me I think not. People make mistakes I believe we all have at one point or another, otherwise we would be perfect.... Huh what a life that would be. Gossip and back stabbing are the for players and people who use this as a past time, don't you think it's about time we pulled up our diapers and put on our pants???? Love, peace and serenity are very important, many of us need this and in my opinion, people should learn to ...

Hahaha what is normal?? What is normal for you isn't necessarily normal for me and vise versa... I say lol to societies "norms" Who says this is normal or that.... Me, you or society? We are all individuals with different needs and wants. No one is going to tell me something is or isn't normal... Neither should you... I like being so called abnormal... hahaha makes me interesting. I love who I am and so should everyone else. People (some) are to quick to judge without a thought about it. Me I never judge... only gain insight into someone's personality. Diversity makes the world go round... Love you! Peace as Always Wandalynn

The greatest gift an individual can have is EMPATHY...  It may seem strange for me to say this but to be a sensitive person to be able to pick on others feelings, attitudes and personality traits just by feeling them... Can be a wonderful or powerfully hurtful experience. Don't confuse empathy with compassion or sympathy it is simply not the same thing. Having emotional completeness is the force that enables a Sensitive to be able to experience others pain, fear, aggression, and any other sort of an emotional state. Being Highly sensitive is not always a bad thing... feeling bad things and knowing and feeling residual energy and picking up on others true self is a gift. Having the social and emotional capacities are not always easy to come by...it can be learned though... it takes time if you are not already graced with an empathic nature already. If anyone is interested in exploring this truly awesome gift I am sharing a couple of links to help you. Love and Light Always ...

Exercising is a very important aspect of keeping healthy, in mind, body and soul. If you are healthy in the body, you will be healthy in the mind, if you are healthy in the mind you will healthy in the soul / spirit.  There are so many benefits to healthy living: More energy Joy Help in fighting disease keeping your immune system and other body systems working properly More positive thinking Looking better Higher self-esteem / self-image and many many more Things which go along with healthy living: Your Spiritual needs need to be met ... what ever your beliefs Intellectual needs Sexual needs Employment or work needs Everything you can do to make your life more balanced is so needed for every aspect of yourself. Take good care of yourself and Love and light to ALL

Moon Child ... that's me. This business was started in 2008. I went through an Entrepreneur Program in 2008, was successful, and while doing this built my business plan. I am a creative person with talent. I love leather so I decided to work with it. The main focus of this business is Custom designs for the Music industry, another passion of mine. Although it is targeted towards the music industry, I also do custom work for individuals. My business is my life, I enjoy working with it and carving the leather into beautiful projects. Some of the projects I have done include guitar straps for Juno Nominee Remedy, 2 Minutes to Maiden. I have also done custom Cuffs for Legions of Chaos, and others.  Restoration of old leather jackets which have sentimental value, any type of restoration is never a big challenge, I love it. Here is a partial list of Custom products I have made for individuals: * Leather Boots Moccasin high style * Moccasins * Purses * Jewelry * Wristbands * ...

I have a disability called PTSD. Most people think of this as only a military condition, but there are all kinds of wars besides those who have fought for our freedoms. I am unable to work in the mainstream workforce for extended periods of time. There are many causes for this debilitating injury. * Childhood abuse * Rape * Capture * Bullying * Spousal abuse * Natural disasters * Car crashes * Front-line workers  Police, EHS, Emergency nurses and doctors * Personal Care workers * Witnessing a violent act... Death, like a murder * Emotional,mental, physical and sexual abuse from strangers * Harassment in the workplace People with this injury not illness; did not ask for these things to be brought to their lives! There is little understood about this condition which brings on flashbacks, nightmares, night terrors, acute anxiety, mood swings, depression and sometimes causes other things like Somatization... this causes seizures or another type of illness the feeling y...