Wandalynn's views

When a person is shackled by guilt, you are at a stand still. You need to be able say no and not feel guilty about it. Your own needs and wants are more important than anything else. If you can't say no you are what we call a door mat. There are many of us out there who are super nice people and are not used to saying no, in which case by saying no often brought us manipulation and or making people pissed off because they are used to us saying JUMP... How high?? My feelings of guilt stem from being controlled by others and for acceptance, well for my own health I had to break free of this cycle. MIND you I am still a loving, caring and empathic person but I had to start to learn that it's OK to say no. I would never get time for myself, and peace or respect if I always said yes, the worlds problems are not my own to bare. I have been through a lot never really got the chance to be myself because I was always looking out for someone Else's best interests.. be it a fri...

Everything happens for a reason and somethings can be devastating. This encourages change and enlightenment. For this reason alone change is good, needed and should be embraced. Many of us live with loss, and sometimes it's a lot of loss. Many seek peace,serenity and love. While others are unsure what to search for. We are all human no matter who says things about us and deserve the respect which goes along with being one in the same a HUMAN BEING!!! Some of us are very sensitive while others are not, some make poor choices but who is to judge? You, me I think not. People make mistakes I believe we all have at one point or another, otherwise we would be perfect.... Huh what a life that would be. Gossip and back stabbing are the for players and people who use this as a past time, don't you think it's about time we pulled up our diapers and put on our pants???? Love, peace and serenity are very important, many of us need this and in my opinion, people should learn to ...